The 17 most annoying things about being Bisexual:

1 - Every person of the same sex that you tell thinks that you fancy them:

The first friend I came out too literally said to me "I'm okay with it as long as you don't fancy me"

2 - They then get offended when you tell them you don't:

I'm sorry but do straight people find every single person of the opposite sex attractive? No I think not!

3 - They get creeped out if you say you do:

If you're attractive to me I'm not going to lie but it doesn't automatically mean I wanna be in a relationship with you.

4 - "Oh but you'll chose one day":

When I came out to my mum she said those exact words to me. No mother I will probably not chose one day because I am Bisexual and I like both men and women.

5 - "It's just a phase":

I mean yeah for some people it might just be a phase because they haven't quite figured it out yet or whatever but a lot of the time it isn't.

6 - Being called "Greedy":

Okay yeah I kinda get it we like both sides of the playing field buuuuut why is that a problem? Just because I like men and women doesn't mean I have to date both at the same time so I'm not really being greedy am I?

7 - People who say they're Bisexual to seem more interesting:

I can't believe that people actually do it but it happens quite a lot apparently. If you are one of those people please stop giving us false hope man it's not fair.

8 - Being told that I'm just too scared to admit I'm a Lesbian:

There are people out there who actually think we call ourselves Bisexual because we aren't ready to admit the truth which is just bollocks.

9 - As soon as you tell a guy that you're Bisexual the next thing they say is "Threesome?":

There is nothing wrong with people wanting a threesome, (personally it's a no from me because I don't like sharing) however just because I'm Bisexual doesn't mean I want a threesome.

10 - Being accused of staring in changing rooms:

I was in secondary school when I came out and I was very open about it, I didn't feel like I had anything to hide, I am very much someone who likes to be straight with people (pun intended) but it meant that when we got changed for P.E. I would get a lot of girls shouting at me to stop staring at them and telling me to turn around which made me feel like maybe there was something wrong with me and I would sometimes get changed in the cubicles if it got too much for me. I understand why they didn't want me to look at them to an extent but like I said before I don't fancy every single person I come into contact with and if I do fancy you I'm not going to stare at you when you're getting changed because I am not a fucking predator, I try my best to be respectful.

11 - Then there are the people who try and get you to stare at them:

There were also girls in my school who would purposefully get changed in a promiscuous way to try and get my attention, there were some girls who would walk right up to me and talk to me while just in their underwear, there were even girls who would purposefully drop things in front of me and watch me as they pick it up to see if I was staring. It made me feel even more ashamed of myself.

12 - People assuming you've done stuff with the same gender:

I mean this doesn't really apply to me because I have done stuff with women but not every Bisexual person has managed to explore yet.

13 - People being grossed out when you have done stuff with the same gender:

I get that some people don't understand but reacting weirdly to it just makes us feel dirty and ashamed which we shouldn't because its perfectly natural.

14 - People behaving differently around you when you come out:

A lot of my friends started to act different around me and it really pissed me off. I would hear of sleepovers I wasn't invited to, my friends wouldn't wanna sleep in the same bed with me. I am not a predator I know how to keep my hands to myself and 9 times out of 10 I probably don't fancy you and if I know you're straight I'm deffo not gonna try it on with you.

15 - People having to tell everyone that they introduce you too:

The amount of times people would go "This my friend Chloe and she's Bisexual" first of all its up to me to tell them not you. secondly not everybody NEEDS to be told this information.

16 - When you go to parties or out clubbing people try and force you to kiss people of the same gender or they use you to experiment:

1 why is this a thing and 2 I am not an experiment. If you want to use me to figure out your sexuality ask me first or you're just getting my hopes up.

17 - Straight people (of the same gender) flirting with you:

You're straight stop trying to get my hopes up (AGAIN)!!!!